*All photos were taken by Andrea in San Francisco in 2012 from June through July.
*The sketch drawing is by Paul Madonna.
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Build That Dark Wood Stained Craft Table
There’s always been this trend of looking nostalgically
towards the past. After a few decades, we look back. Either we hate the
fashions or we wear them with pride. These last couple of years has been
heavily influenced by minimalism. We crave the simple life: farms, rooster
calls, summer linen drying in the breeze, homemade jam, shared gatherings
underneath the stars. Currently, blogs are ranting about how you must DIY your
life—drink mint lemonade or Tennessee whiskey out of mason jars, sew some
flowers on your shirt, and collect shells for a necklace. It’s been enough solicitation
that I am starting to get sick of it. Why do we need to be constantly reminded
of the simple pleasures in life that already exist? If they are so simple, then
we shouldn’t need to make an endless effort to complete them. Why has slowing
down become exceedingly hard for us to achieve?
Perhaps our forgetfulness is linked to technology. We’ve got
everything we could want at our fingertips. We are lazy. Let’s watch another episode of Portlandia. Take-out sounds good
tonight. We aren’t required to physically work for our food like our
father’s father’s did in the past—hunting deer and slow cooking it over the
fire. Dinner comes in a can now. The grocery store has everything we could ever
want, year round. Unfortunately, that isn’t how nature works. We shouldn’t be
allowed to buy a banana from Jamaica or Kiwi from Australia 365 days a year. Nonetheless
we do it because we have outsmarted Mother Nature. Thus, our own skills have
turned society around full circle. We are at the point where we can’t think for
ourselves. (I always use a calculator because I avoid doing mathematical equations
in my head at all costs.) We longingly gaze back at where we started from: simplicity
in the 1800s never smelled sweeter (minus the diseases).
We don’t, however, live in the age of Thoreau where we can
chill at Walden Pond for unlimited months and write about dandelion seeds
scattered in the wind. We’ve got work to do. But, in today’s tech world, with
everything able and ready for us, we should have a lot more time to make that
dark wood stained craft table seen in Kinfolk. So what’ the problem? We are
over stuffing our schedules with additional work. We are neglecting our leisure
agenda and not setting aside enough time to do things we enjoy. Also, the
thought of making something ourselves is tiresome when everything else comes
instantaneously. What we need is to reprioritize.
I guess all of those fancy blog posts about listening to the
sound of the waves or making your own apartment herb garden have worthwhile intentions.
Though it’s all I see 24/7 on the blogs that I read, it is necessary to keep
repeating the mantra: Slow down. Enjoy your life. Slowing down takes
time. That is the entire point. And in the twenty-first century, every day gets
harder and harder to move into this backward mindset. Just the same as setting
a morning alarm, we have to remind ourselves that we are living to live.
Words + photo by Andrea Dumovich
Labels:
Crafts,
DIY,
Kinfolk,
Living,
Nostalgic,
Prioritize,
Simplicity,
Slow Down
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
The Joy of Being
Eternity In An
Afternoon – by Rebecca Martin / Kinfolk Issue 4
“The days are long,” say other moms
who see me toting my baby around. “But the years are short,” they always add.
They mean carpe diem, or something
like it: this time won’t last forever, so enjoy the moments while she’s still
small. But in my experience, the days fly. Between lifting her out of her crib
at daybreak and laying her down for the night, I feel like I’m chasing down the
clock.
I
pull her from the crib, change her diaper and her clothes (sometimes twice, if
I’m unlucky), and head for the kitchen. I’m always surprised: eight-thirty
already? But the glowing green numbers on the stovetop don’t lie. Breakfast is
a longer meal than it used to be, and I’m learning to savor the calm time with
my daughter; the carpe diem lesson
applies here. But then we’re off to play, and in no time it seems, to sleep
again: morning nap. If I’m disciplined, I write. I fill up an hour and a half
with words and imaginings. Otherwise, I twiddle the time away on food prep and
house straightening and blogs and emails. Either way, the wake-up cry sounds
from below sooner than I expect, and I’m down to the baby’s room for diapering,
lunch, errands, more play if we can squeeze it in, and then another nap, the
afternoon one.
Here
is where the hours begin to stretch out. I allow myself a couch sit and a
drink: coffee if it’s an early nap, wine if it’s later. I read, I doze, I watch
something on the BBC and stitch on an embroidery piece that’s been lying around
for several months. And I start to feel antsy. Nap time is me time, and yes, I
savor it. But now I grow a little lonely, especially in the waning afternoon
light. I wander the upstairs indecisively. I go down to the kitchen and heat up
milk. I make sure the sippy cup is washed and ready. I check the stovetop
clock. I actually stalk the nursery door. And then I hear it! The first peep of
waking.
I
sweep up the baby and we sit, together, snuggled in the armchair by the dining
room window. She is warm and soft, still halfway between sleep and waking. She
drinks her afternoon milk and leans into me. I give her a squeeze and look out
the window, lit by white lights from the inside and sunset glow from the
outside.
“Never
wake a sleeping baby,” everyone says. But for this, I would. This is our
tradition. This is my favorite part of the day. The time may fly, but this is
the moment I want to keep for eternity.
(The painting "Mother" is by Mary Cassatt)
Labels:
Children,
Daughters,
Kinfolk,
Mary Cassatt,
Motherhood,
Mothers
Sunday, July 1, 2012
Picnic Perfect
(How jealous am I of that portable picnic record player. Photo by Frolic.)
Happy July 1st! How can you have a lovely picnic? It's easy. All you need is preparation and a willingness to have a nice time with friends. Get over your laziness and do something fun!
For my picnic yesterday I made asparagus, goat cheese, lemon, tarragon pasta. I found the recipe from Smitten Kitchen here. It's incredibly simple. The only problem is that the asparagus and goat cheese cost a bit more than you may be willing to spend if on a budget. Still, it's entirely worth it. I made a pound of tasty pasta for eleven dollars. I served it cold.
For dessert, you've got to try this strawberry-rhubarb pie. It screams summer with bright pink and red strawberry juice that will stain your clothes. I improvised at the last second by making two pies instead of one. Since I only prepared enough dough for one pie I ended up not having a pie crust for the tops. It turned out fine, though it might not win a beauty pie contest. I was worried that the filling was too juicy and would make the crust saggy, not to mention challenging to eat. But after the first bite I knew that it turned out precisely perfect. I would only recommend toning down the sugar suggested in the recipe. The strawberries surely suffice as an added sweetness. Make it here. You'll want to prep the dough the night before. It's super easy and makes for a very worthy crust. You can read up on the dough recipe here.
(That's my strawberry-rhubarb pie.)
Saturday, June 30, 2012
Why This Discrimination, SF x LA?
LA
loves SF. So why do SF people have to hate on LA? Oh, you know, LA is very superficial and clogged with smog. When
they insult LA, they don't even know what they are talking about. Sure, go to
LA without knowing the right places visit. Where will you end up? In Hollywood;
at some club; a creepy dive bar, glitter bar or both; stuck in traffic, always.
That is all pretty miserable, so I can understand why someone's perception of
LA would be skewed. But Los Angeles has so
much history, culture, ethnically diverse people, and hidden beauty to offer.
You only need patience and an open mind to find it.
LA
has problems. As do all cities. But running away from the problems only
inflates them further. I once was visiting San Francisco and speaking with a
respectable urban planner. I asked him if I should focus my concerns on Los
Angeles—the sprawl, the traffic, and the waste—instead of on San Francisco, a
city that is already environmentally aware. He laughed and said you need to get up here. That was it. No
debate or profound thoughts about why it would be beneficial to work in a city
that needs help the most. You need to be
here. I understand that being surround by likeminded people is always
encouraging to get work done. But I can’t let all the other problems be set off
to the side because they are harder to fix.
My
heart cries when I overhear someone speak poorly of LA. San Francisco yuppie, you don't
understand what you are saying! Why not go to Los Angeles and truly get lost
for once. You may find something lovely just when you think all has
disintegrated. Isn’t
that, though, the root of all discrimination? Misunderstanding, incomprehension,
and estranged feelings lead us to label something we don’t get as weird or wrong.
California is a vast land. It makes
sense that people fall into the trap: comparing two wonderful cities that
divide the state from North to South is tempting. I once believed one city
superior to the other. But over more frequent visits to both it became clear to
me that they aren’t even on the same level of comparison. Each place is amazing
by its unique form. When you enter Northern California from the South, it feels
like you’ve stepped into another time zone. The air feels different, as well as
people’s mentalities. People confuse the difference within our state as one
being better than the other. It’s fine to have an opinion or a preference.
Those that simply do not like Los Angeles because they have had one bad
experience do not, however, have the right to negatively speak about a place
they aren’t familiar with.
Just open your eyes. Living in the
state of California, we are lucky to have it all. And we really do have it all.
San Diego has its laidback beach vibe. Orange County is comfortable with breath-taking
scenery. Los Angeles is a pocket of cities within cities, which makes it
fantastic for exploring. Santa Barbara is a luscious mountain landscape painted
on sand. Further up the coast includes numerous cozy-costal and inland farm
towns that I cannot begin to list. Driving up the 101, it if feels like the
state’s growth can’t be stopped. It goes, and goes, and keeps going past
hundreds of curvy miles and straightly paved roads through deserts, beaches,
forests, farmland, suburbs, and average-looking cities. We’ve got it all, and
we are so lucky to hop on a plane and be transported from SF to LA in one hour.
So when you tell me that you think there is no comparison to San Francisco, I
might agree. When you tell me you don’t like Los Angeles at all, I am open to
hearing your valid, well-thought reasons. But when it comes down to a one line
elitist remark about how awful LA is compared to SF, I won’t be listening.
Sunday, June 24, 2012
This Week in Summation
June 20: The city was looking good. Actually--spectacular! All the locals were shocked by this freaky SoCal weather that has greeted the bay for the past month.
This is the best place to get a $3.50 banh mi in the Tenderloin. I am not just saying this because I know that Real Estate ate here. It truly is the greatest. :)
You can't avoid the street art.
Dash Jacket and Moon Pearl are on tour. This is probably the weirdest space they could have played: a meat-locker in the less-than-pretty part of Oakland.
June 21: Mojo Bicycle Cafe is rad. It feels a little like teleportation--bringing me straight back to Berlin. People sit outside, drink beer, and share conversation. It's intimate; it's cozy. Inside the music is comfortably hip. They offer Ritual and De La Paz. You sip, they fix your bike. Pop-up Rice Paper Scissors serves there too. This Thursday was part of Banh Mi Thursdays. The Beef Pho Roll was a clean appetizer/meal: sauteed hanger steak and herbs, wrapped in fresh rice noodle sheets. My friend had the Vegetarian "Smoked Duck" soy/wheat-based "duck" with king trumpet mushrooms. Though skeptical at first, I was proved wrong. The "duck" tasted like a sweet sauteed tofu. Shall I come again? Um, I'm on my way right now!
It chooses you.
June 22: I've been wanting to check this place out--Mixed Nuts. It's right next to my house and sells things dear to my taste, such as greenery/antique/housewares.
June 22: Tu Lan Vietnamese Restaurant needs no review except that it is really excellent all round for the food, price, and hole-in-the-wall feel. Later that day I checked out the San Francisco Historical Society located in the Old Mint Building. The current exhibit features Kim Novak's paintings, which were never before revealed to the public. The Stuff That Dreams Are Made Of: San Francisco and The Movies exhibit featured primarily posters and trivia. The funniest part was the Vertigo room. The narration tried to make visitors feel as if they were Carlotta herself, about to jump into the bay. The fog-horn playing in repetition was a nice touch.
I ended the day with a bikeride out to the Legion of Honor. (Hardly a bikeride--it takes about 15 minutes.) As I sat in deep contemplation, staring out onto the Golden Gate, I noticed a newlywed couple approach this stretch of incredible beauty. They totally stole my idea!
June 23+ 24: SF Pride--a lawless time in the city. I was late to work due to this human conglomerate.
Monday, June 18, 2012
Homeward
It's been a dreamworld living in San Francisco. These past 18 days have felt like a perpetual vacation mixed with a splash of frantic job hunting stress. Things have yet to fall into place; it's hardly been one month. But my living room pictured above sure feels like home!
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
East Coast on Film
Last December I traveled to Boston and New York City for the first time. These photographs reveal some snippets of my trip. I used a Canon AE-1 film camera. The first three images are taken around Boston University. The fifth image was snapped after a long day of travel, feeling weary upon my first encounter with the Big Apple. Though, the trip was a success! I left wanting to come back again someday when the weather blossoms brighter.
Labels:
35 mm,
Boston,
Brooklyn Bridge,
Canon AE-1,
Cities,
Film,
MOMA,
New York City
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